heres the quote...."nice guys come in last"
this is just starting to get to me, because my whole life i have chose not to believe this. i mean theres just no way that being nice would have any bad effects right?but the past few months have started to change my mind, of course im not gonna change who i am just cause i get screwed over a lot, but still i dont understand how this quote manages to stand true......maybe its just me?

naaaaaaah its not just u cadey,,,, most nice girls come in last 2! *shrugs and u should neva have 2 change who you are, tho as u move on in life u toughen up just a lil and eventually u can still b the same nice you just with a smaller amount of walk overs as before, as more and more common sence kicks in! *shrugs

or u could get a g/f that takes no sh!t that will do the job 4 ya!

sometimes life's a bitch subs, and the assholes seem to get ahead, but at least you can hold your head up and look ppl in the eye, i know which i would rather

always remember, " He who dies with the most toys, still dies "

if you can bring a little good into the world then you make it a better place for everyone, and who knows when all that good karma will catch up with you

May be the good pepole do the rigt thing . offtan when they realse the conasaquense for them selfs . thart they kno they will pay a great price for doing the '' right thing''. some times doing the '' right thing'' with outthnking of the price they will pay. offtan the ''good gyes'' are lfat at , put down as beeing ''sofft'' . but yes it's being abul 2 live with your self , our selfs. I have lerant , to be kider expeckitin 2 be a looseer , when i have '' dun the right thing'' . then finding i am left alone , left out of the circal . i gues '' the good blokes r destand 2 be the kind of freind who i at times needed , but reairly wonted . may be pepole feeil thertand by the '' good bloke'' . as pepole tuern to them during times of stress a time when they c them selfs as being weak .. then cant handul , that showed them selfs at a bad time in ther lifes 2 some 1 . i hve lernt tht when some 12 has ytaken dvantige of me , many have. i hert them by reclaimeing my freindship . they then dont have me 2 tuern 2 .

thain_man

sadly it is a truth subby nice peeps do get messed with alot but its not about how much you gain or how fast you are life is no race its a voyage we are all basicaly ships passing in the night some are pirates some will ring the bell while you hit a fog bank to help but in the end we all go to the same place and the only ''hell'' is knowing what you did to get there, the hardest demons to beat are those you spawn and train yourself

life c an be a race , a rat race at that, me 1st, dog eat dog bck stabeing , keeping up with the Jonses. Grabinng down outhers who are abovbe ahead , treding them down , & keeping them down below. In a song by Ahtaney Newly '' stop the world I wana get off'', is may be apropet hear. Some peole feil , that joineing in ''the game'' is just not for them. So they find them selfs victimised , as pepole lol at them do them down in all the ways they can. Thse who deside to not be apart of the ''norm'' are may be a littles more free than most , those who are bouen with free thourt can be more free to make free destin's . Chose thear freinds , life stile & co. Now I am an agnostk humanist , I flow not phlosfer or humanist school of thort . So I canchose what eaver peae of phloserfey I chose. So pease of phloserfey I find fits me like a glove . But in NOreligose way at all I do nt beleave in any god at all . Right expernastion dun. The phloserfical bit now: I go along witgh the story of the Samariran , now the Samritans did not get on with the Isrelits at all. The 2 of them, should meet as say fans of Manchester united were to meet fans of Liverpool well they would only be happy to meet each outher so they could have a rather bloody punch up. Now theaer wa tis Samritan was rideing his donkey. As herode his donkey he could see something in the rode. And he saw a prest crosing the outher side , as did outhers. The Samaritan was puzaled , as he goty closer he could see it was an injerd man. He got off is poney , eegerly bent down to look at the man , tore his cloths of his back 2 dress the pore mans wounds. rechd up 2 his walter bottle haning from his donkeys harnes , he gave the walter to the ma to drink. The man was delirouse with therst , he decribed how he wa mugd Betan up & left for dead. And saide he was an Isreite. As the man recouverd , he could see that man helping him WAS a Samritan. He was to buerd , bashed about , bleeding a broken left arm & his right leg did not bair thinkng about.He had a badly cut forward, he was in lets fase it in a shit stait. ''Why are to helping me?'' I aint got nouthing left to steil'' '' thats ok , I have sufuishant to pay for yor keep '' '' soon have you on your feet?'' '' & ''why should I not help you?'' with a questanig look on his fase , the SAmaritan lifted up the Isrlite & put him on the back of his donkey , securing the man to the beast. He took him to the 1st inn he came to. Whea he told the inn keeper to look afer the injerd man. The inn keeper was not to keen , well what do expect ''' your a Samaritan ,aint your?'' But as soon as the Samaritan , dumpt a lode of wonger on the bar '' why yes sir , of ;cos sir '' '' I will setale up when I retuern , ok'' '' I SAIDE OK , INNKEEPER '' yes sir '' '' anything you say , sir'' '' i will look after him proper so I willl '' '' you cancount on me, sir'' with that the Samartin left. That is how I see thosre who come last as we have stoped to look affter some 1 les forchanet than us. So with those we stopt 2 help or just 2 listan 2 , we finish in 1st plase with thosre pepol. The samaritn missed out on wjhat he had set out 2 get. But he just gave a shrug , was more conserned about how the Isrelite ws geting onn , & that the inn keeper ws keeping the bargan.

Thain_man

Heas a favret story I herd on ch 4 t v some years a go: The Ausstralean S A S , chalinged some Abriganals to get from point ''A'' to ,point ''b'' using thear bush craft & suvival craft.The Aboriganals weere tashanal Aboriganls , not cityfide.Well they took up the chalinge . Affter about a week , the Aussy S A S duley arived at the finish , with no signe of the Aboriogeanals . hours came & whent , till dusks folowed dawn's. Still no singn of the chalinged Aborigeanals. The sigering of the Aussy S A s wasnw tuernig to a bit of consern , figertan feet . The offisers were thinking of caling up the Air Forse to go on erch mission. When sudenly the Aborigeanals sudenly apeard. '' Whear the fk have you been?'' '' get lost , lol?'' '' Nope'' '' why do you ask?'' '' well you sshould have been hear dfays a go'' '' we were about to call the up a plaine to go and look for you'' , Why should yopu do tat?'' we were not lost , we kno exsakley were we were '' We just felt like taken a look at a few plases '' '' we were in no hury'' '' now wears the tea?''
Sowesay stop a whil smell the flowes '' '' ltake in the seanary '' skt a while lets talk , whats the hurry , it will still be thear wnen you arive.

Thain_man

Deleted by me

Thain_man

all roads are worth pursuit mate some are more bumpy than others and some are lined with jackles who bay and taunt looking for an easy prey they wear you down with arrows of insults and spears to weigh you down till you stop.. dead but in that kill they loose their own purpose with no prey on the road they starve and have to move on
the more good you are the more evil attacks and hates
the more generous you are the more they take advantage
the more trusting you are the more they decive
the more of a soul you are the greater things try to take from you

essentialy to quote some words '' The more that you resist the tide
The more it pulls you in
The more you hang on for your life''

dont break that what life wants fight but in that know what your fighting for and never loose sight